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How often do you actively seek out potential partners or engage in dating activities?

What is your preferred approach to meeting new people?

Are you comfortable with being alone and enjoying your own company?

How do you handle rejection or setbacks in your dating life?

Do you have specific criteria or expectations that potential partners must meet?

How comfortable are you with vulnerability and opening up to others?

Are you actively engaged in self-improvement and personal growth?

Do you often find yourself prioritizing work or other commitments over your dating life?

How would you describe your overall level of self-confidence?

How do you typically approach initiating conversations or showing interest in potential partners?

Do you find it easy to strike up and maintain conversations with new people?

Have you actively sought advice or support in improving your dating skills or social interactions?

Are you open to stepping out of your comfort zone to try new dating experiences?

Do you believe that timing and luck play a role in finding the right partner?

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Are you curious about the factors that might contribute to your current single status? This insightful quiz is designed to help you explore various aspects of your life and personality that could play a role in your relationship status.

Being single can have a variety of reasons, and this quiz aims to provide you with valuable insights into your circumstances. From personal preferences to social dynamics, each question will guide you towards a better understanding of why you might be single at this moment.

1: How often do you actively seek out potential partners or engage in dating activities?

a) I regularly put effort into finding a partner

b) I occasionally seek companionship but not consistently

c) I rarely actively look for a partner

d) I haven’t been actively seeking a relationship

2: What is your preferred approach to meeting new people?

a) Through social events and mutual connections

b) Online dating and dating apps

c) Involvement in hobbies or interest groups

d) I’m not sure how to meet new people

3: Are you comfortable with being alone and enjoying your own company?

a) Yes, I value my independence and enjoy solitude

b) Somewhat, but I prefer companionship

c) No, I often feel lonely when alone

d) I haven’t thought much about it

4: How do you handle rejection or setbacks in your dating life?

a) I take it in stride and keep a positive attitude

b) It affects me, but I bounce back relatively quickly

c) I find it challenging and it impacts my confidence

d) I haven’t experienced much rejection

5: Do you have specific criteria or expectations that potential partners must meet?

a) Yes, I have clear standards and expectations

b) I have some preferences, but I’m open to flexibility

c) Not really, I’m open to various types of people

d) I haven’t defined my criteria clearly

6: How comfortable are you with vulnerability and opening up to others?

a) Very comfortable, I’m open and honest with others

b) Somewhat comfortable, but I have my reservations

c) Not very comfortable, I find it challenging to be vulnerable

d) I’m not sure; I haven’t been in such situations

7: Are you actively engaged in self-improvement and personal growth?

a) Yes, I invest time in my personal development

b) I try to improve, but not consistently

c) Not really, I haven’t focused on self-improvement

d) I’m not sure where to start

8: Do you often find yourself prioritizing work or other commitments over your dating life?

a) Yes, work or other commitments take up most of my time

b) Sometimes, but I try to balance both aspects

c) No, I make an effort to prioritize my dating life

d) I haven’t really thought about it

9: Are you open to dating someone who might have different interests or backgrounds?

a) Yes, I’m open to diverse connections

b) I prefer someone with similar interests and background

c) I’m unsure, it depends on the person

d) I haven’t considered this aspect much

10: How would you describe your overall level of self-confidence?

a) Very confident, I believe in myself and my worth

b) Moderately confident, with occasional self-doubt

c) Not very confident, I struggle with self-esteem

d) I have mixed feelings about my confidence

11: How do you typically approach initiating conversations or showing interest in potential partners?

a) I’m proactive and initiate conversations confidently

b) I’m hesitant but try to express interest subtly

c) I rarely initiate, and I wait for others to approach me

d) I haven’t had many opportunities to initiate

12: Do you find it easy to strike up and maintain conversations with new people?

a) Yes, I’m a good conversationalist and enjoy interactions

b) I’m comfortable, but sometimes I run out of topics

c) Not really, I often struggle to keep conversations flowing

d) I’m not sure; it depends on the situation

13: Have you actively sought advice or support in improving your dating skills or social interactions?

a) Yes, I’ve sought advice and worked on self-improvement

b) I’ve considered it, but haven’t taken significant steps

c) No, I haven’t sought advice or support

d) I haven’t thought about seeking advice

14: Are you open to stepping out of your comfort zone to try new dating experiences?

a) Very open, I enjoy trying new things

b) Somewhat open, depending on the situation

c) Not very open, I prefer familiar dating activities

d) I’m hesitant to step out of my comfort zone

15: Do you believe that timing and luck play a role in finding the right partner?

a) Yes, I think timing and luck are important factors

b) I believe it’s a combination of effort and timing

c) No, I believe finding a partner is mostly within my control

d) I’m not sure what factors contribute to finding a partner

Mark Manson
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Mark Manson is a renowned dating coach who has helped thousands of individuals around the world improve their dating lives. His approach to coaching is unique, in that he focuses on the individual rather than on specific techniques or formulas.